UPDATE: I just remembered a very important one.
8. I don't berate myself for what I don't do or don't do as well as someone else.
I've chosen the things I do and don't and even if it's not all perfect, what good will it do me to feel bad about it? If I haven't chosen to do it, it's not as important as the things I am doing. If I need to add something to my do list then I can work on that but not by dwelling on what a rotten person I am for not doing it. I just don't believe in that kind of thinking. I am not superwoman but I am capable. If something really needs to get done, I can do it. But first I'll have to decide what not to do, so I'll have time for the new something. And what is the point of comparing myself to anyone else? I don't do it. If I want to be really good at something I'll have to put more time into it. How my effort stacks up against someone else's similar effort is irrelevant. I love to be inspired by what others are doing but I don't waste my time comparing myself to them. I get good ideas and move on.