So I’ve been thinking a lot about motherhood this week. Today I was listening to a cover of Bob Dylan’s “Make You Feel My Love” (by Adele, really great!) and the lyrics describe how I feel about my children really well. I suspect many mothers would feel the same. There is something there that especially speaks to the journey adoptive parents take.
"Make You Feel My Love"
When the rain is blowin' in your face
And the whole world is on your case
I could offer you a warm embrace
To make you feel my love.
When the evening shadows and the stars appear
And there is no one there to dry your tears
I could hold you for a million years
To make you feel my love.
I know you haven't made your mind up yet
But I would never do you wrong
I've known it from the moment that we met
No doubt in my mind where you belong.
I'd go hungry, I'd go black and blue
I'd go crawlin' down the avenue
No, there's nothin' that I wouldn't do
To make you feel my love.
Though storms are raging on the rollin' sea
And on the highway of regrets
Though winds of change are throwing wild and free
You ain't seen nothin' like me yet.
I could make you happy, make your dreams come true
Nothing that I wouldn't do
Go to the ends of the Earth for you
To make you feel my love.
It also reminds me of a passage from The Secret Garden by Francis Hodgson Burnett, which I recently read. One of the main characters, Dickon, a 12-year-old boy, befriends two motherless 10-year-old cousins, Colin and Mary. Dickon’s mother, Susan Sowerby, is the archetypal loving, gentle, understanding mother. Colin finally meets her one day and when it’s time to say goodbye he
“stood quite close to Susan and fixed his eyes on her with a kind of bewildered adoration and he suddenly caught hold of the fold of her blue cloak and held it fast.
‘You were just what I—what I wanted,’ he said. ‘I wish you were my mother—as well as Dickon’s!’
“All at once Susan Sowerby bent down and drew him with her warm arms close against the bosom under the blue cloak—as if he had been Dickon’s brother. The quick mist swept over her eyes.
‘Eh! Dear lad!’ she said. ‘Thy own mother’s in this ‘ere very garden, I do believe. She couldna’ keep out of it.’”
I can’t read that passage without choking up. I’d love and mother all the motherless children in the world if it were possible. My husband is afraid I might try.
Thanks Juli, for helping me connect all these dots.
6 comments:
Hi, I've been reading your blog for the past little while and thought I'd stop lurking to wish you congratulations! I hope all goes well with the pregnancy!
Thanks Paige! Congrats to you too:)
We are VERY excited for you guys! can't wait! And I absolutely love Adele's version of that song! I listened to it, immediately after I read your blog. I never thought of it in a mother/child way, but the song is even more special now! I will be singing it to my babies one day. :) I also see how extra special the song is for adoptive parents. What a journey! Dane and I love you guys... all 6 of you! :)
Wow...what stories you'll be able to tell someday :) Congrats congrats and I look forward to meeting your new arrival!!
Wow! That's amazing and crazy!! In a good way of course. Hope all goes well, that's exciting news! The twins are so cute, how quickly they grow!
I would mother them all too, if I could! We have a lot in common, Jen! Loved your post. Congrats! I'm so happy for you guys.
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